Q:
Do you believe in having a soul mate? I think I do and have no rational basis for thinking so, but should I keep the faith? I feel childish for wanting to believe, and I’m usually pretty practical/cynical, so I don’t readily admit to wondering about it.
A:
I think I do. For all I know I may have already been with her. I’m not one of those people who thinks something has to last forever and ever to be successful. I would suggest you continue looking, but don’t look so hard that you miss out on amazing people in the meantime. People can grow to be soul mates, too. It’s nice to keep the dream alive and remain open to it, as long as you remember to live your life along the way.
I am not a licensed therapist, guru, or magic relationship mender. This is sex and love advice from a guy who has seen both failure and success in the relationship department. I am a little jaded, a little disillusioned, a little sarcastic, yet very honest. Answers may be sincere, absurd, comical, or sometimes flat-out wrong. You'll have to consider the source, I suppose.
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