Q:
How can you have sex with a guy on the first or second date and have him still respect you? I mean, how much time do you have to waste before finding out if he’s good in bed or not? What happens if you wait and he’s not good?
A:
Personally, I am very accelerated in this area. I say, it’s 2012 and we all know that a physical connection is just as important as emotional and spiritual connections. Why waste time on a movie, dinner, a club, bowling, or whatever else, only to find that when you finally kiss, there’s no fire. My advice is not to worry about when you have sex and just to let it flow. Too much thinking on this can destroy the whole thing and put way too much weight on what is probably the most natural thing the two of you will ever do.
I am not a licensed therapist, guru, or magic relationship mender. This is sex and love advice from a guy who has seen both failure and success in the relationship department. I am a little jaded, a little disillusioned, a little sarcastic, yet very honest. Answers may be sincere, absurd, comical, or sometimes flat-out wrong. You'll have to consider the source, I suppose.
