Q:
What’s the best way to play off embarrassing premature ejaculation with your lover?
A:
I don’t know that there is a good way to “play it off.” Sex followed by an apology is never really all that heated and impassioned, is it? But this is a common problem for many men, so know that you are not alone. I would suggest that you make every effort to explain to your partner that she is simply so hot that you couldn’t help yourself. Keep it light and make her feel beautiful and let her know that you find her to be the sexiest woman in the world. Then, head down south! Just because you finish doesn’t mean that the experience is finished. Do what you can to satisfy her. Oral? Fingers? Toys? Be open to taking care of her needs. Get her off, and I am sure this little hiccup will quickly be forgotten. In the meantime, search out exercises that will help you with the problem. There are ways you can work on this to see that it doesn’t happen again.
I am not a licensed therapist, guru, or magic relationship mender. This is sex and love advice from a guy who has seen both failure and success in the relationship department. I am a little jaded, a little disillusioned, a little sarcastic, yet very honest. Answers may be sincere, absurd, comical, or sometimes flat-out wrong. You'll have to consider the source, I suppose.
