Q:
How can you talk your girl into doing a threesome with another girl?
A:
Honestly, if you have to talk her into it, you may not want to go down that road. The whole threesome situation can be an emotional hotbed waiting to blow up in your face if you aren’t careful. If your girl isn’t already into it, she may feel threatened if she interprets the suggestion as meaning she’s not enough for you. Discuss the concept in general terms, and if you sense any hesitation, take your foot off the gas. Pressure her into it and she could end up resenting you for a long time and throwing the idea in your face in the middle of arguments, seemingly out of nowhere. “Oh, yeah? Well, why don’t you just go find some whore you can have your threesome with?” (Women love to do this. Ha!) If she doesn’t bring up the idea or isn’t interested, pushing her into it may do nothing more than cause you to wake up single very soon.
On the other hand, if she is down with it, have at it! Just make sure you don’t take advantage of a drunken evening and have a threesome with a friend of hers. When she wakes up sober, that’s when the real fun begins. And by “fun” I mean absolute hell.
The truth is, threesomes are usually better when none of the individuals are in an existing relationship. Sure, there are many couples that are secure enough to do it without repercussions. But in those situations, nobody needs to be “talked into it.”
I am not a licensed therapist, guru, or magic relationship mender. This is sex and love advice from a guy who has seen both failure and success in the relationship department. I am a little jaded, a little disillusioned, a little sarcastic, yet very honest. Answers may be sincere, absurd, comical, or sometimes flat-out wrong. You'll have to consider the source, I suppose.
