Q:
I visited my husband at work for a little lunchtime hotness, wearing nothing but lingerie under a trench coat. He actually got mad at me. What man wouldn’t want his wife to do that? I’m insulted and confused by his reaction.
A:
Okay, here is where some women think they have us men figured out and they really don’t. “I’ll just throw sex at him. That’ll make him happy.” Wrong. Sure, it’s nice to spice things up once in a while and do something out of the ordinary, but you have to be willing to accept it when things don’t go your way. Your man was at work, focused on something and trying to do his job. When you showed up like that, it was almost as if you were saying, “Hey, stop what you’re doing and service me.” You had the right idea, but perhaps your execution was poor. Next time, try calling him and asking if he can spare an hour on his lunch break for something special and sexy. Tease him beforehand and make him curious about your plans. You’ll find he will look forward to the visit instead of feeling cornered.
I am not a licensed therapist, guru, or magic relationship mender. This is sex and love advice from a guy who has seen both failure and success in the relationship department. I am a little jaded, a little disillusioned, a little sarcastic, yet very honest. Answers may be sincere, absurd, comical, or sometimes flat-out wrong. You'll have to consider the source, I suppose.
