Q:
How do I tell a guy that I’m 25 and still a virgin? And what would you think about a girl you want to have sex with who tells you that?
A:
This has also come up before, but again, it bears repeating: Just tell him. There’s no point in keeping it a secret if you think it will have a profound and possible negative effect on how your relationship may go. For me? I may shy away from dating a 25-year-old virgin only because I am aware that if we ever connect sexually, there could be an emotional expectation. Men know that if we are your first, it’s a pretty important thing. Some of us don’t want to be that pivotal of a person, and will balk at it early on in a relationship.
I am not a licensed therapist, guru, or magic relationship mender. This is sex and love advice from a guy who has seen both failure and success in the relationship department. I am a little jaded, a little disillusioned, a little sarcastic, yet very honest. Answers may be sincere, absurd, comical, or sometimes flat-out wrong. You'll have to consider the source, I suppose.
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