Q:
Is it ethical to fake an orgasm, or is it another form of lying to your partner?
A:
I suppose it’s somewhat unethical, sure. However, the real issue is that you have to lie about it. I would suggest trying to create a more even playing field, and having a conversation to discuss what works best for you. I mean, you may be robbing him of an ego stroke, but you’re also robbing yourself of an orgasm. I don’t know what exactly you’re accomplishing by faking it. Seems like a lose/lose, as he is more than likely to think everything is good. That means he won’t change what he’s doing anytime soon.
I am not a licensed therapist, guru, or magic relationship mender. This is sex and love advice from a guy who has seen both failure and success in the relationship department. I am a little jaded, a little disillusioned, a little sarcastic, yet very honest. Answers may be sincere, absurd, comical, or sometimes flat-out wrong. You'll have to consider the source, I suppose.
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