Q:
If you find someone who you have the most unbelievable sexual chemistry with and find out she is a “freak like me,” do you think you can really keep that passion alive?
A:
Tough one. Here is where my personal “disqualifier” comes in handy, as I have personally never succeeded at keeping passion alive, although I hear it can be done. Just be prepared for not every experience to be freaky. There are going to be peaks and valleys in every bedroom, and trying to maintain an accelerated level of passion is unlikely … especially if you’re into the freaky stuff. There will be times when the sex will be vanilla and average, but your willingness to experiment will keep things fresh. This reminds me of the old joke: Put a penny in a jar every time you have sex during your first year of marriage. During the second year of marriage, take one out. After two years, you will have a jar full of pennies.
I am not a licensed therapist, guru, or magic relationship mender. This is sex and love advice from a guy who has seen both failure and success in the relationship department. I am a little jaded, a little disillusioned, a little sarcastic, yet very honest. Answers may be sincere, absurd, comical, or sometimes flat-out wrong. You'll have to consider the source, I suppose.
