Q:
How does one go about overcoming trust issues from past relationships and lifestyles, so they don’t affect a current beautiful family?
A:
Generally, I recommend getting a handle on those issues prior to creating a family, but life is often messier and more complicated than that. I would suggest seeing a therapist, as personal work is required out side the family unit. Maybe couples therapy as well. These are issues that are better left to the professionals. For me, I try to keep aware that whatever I have going on in my twisted little head has nothing to do with anyone but me. Unleashing my own personal sickness on others really never gets me anywhere.
I am not a licensed therapist, guru, or magic relationship mender. This is sex and love advice from a guy who has seen both failure and success in the relationship department. I am a little jaded, a little disillusioned, a little sarcastic, yet very honest. Answers may be sincere, absurd, comical, or sometimes flat-out wrong. You'll have to consider the source, I suppose.
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